Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Bon Voyage
Ain't gonna lie, its sad that Beki left, on a brighter note, she left MI to continue studying in Australia, somewhere everyone around me seems to be disappearing to. Why? Don't ask me i'm not really sure. Made me realise something as i stood there looking at the tear stained faces. Friends really are important to us. True, family is as well but given the amount of time we spend with our friends. I highly doubt that its because we spend a lot of time with our family thats why we've to compensate our friends, but its more of them being able to relate to us on a deeper level. Whatever we go through chances are they've either gone through it as well or they're going through it with you. One of my friend pointed this out, "Ever wondered how weird it would be if you saw this girl and told your mum how hot you thought she was?" The idea and that thought was funny, hell, still kinda is now and maybe some of you are thinking if i did that, i assure you no, but he did make sense, we can't do that with our family, we can only do that with our friends, maybe its also one of the reasons why we go to them for fun stuff, like they give us a life. True to a certain extent, but family was really the one that gave you life in the first place. Point being? Don't lead your life as friends in one and family in another. I found that i've been lucky enough to find friends that allowed me to combine the both together, it wasn't easy at first, you can't please everyone but in time somehow everything just falls into place. Because sometimes the line between family and friends becomes marred and faded so that it all becomes a huge group of just Family, sub-consciously we treat our closest friends as family members as well. Which is just as well, given the way the world is turning out. If we could all continue to do so, then maybe everyone would be happier. Kinda makes you think that we're all part of some huge connection no?
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2:32 AM;
